help the woman in chains

[mustang lover]

:angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: hi people..
u got to really help me with this or im going crazy...
what do u think is better...staying with a son of a ***** husband for the my
kids sake or leaving him...
im really sick and tired of this stupid life

[Honda Hunter]

Drama. If youre not happy and he's not happy take your kids and start over. Staying with someone and blaming the kids allways turns out bad for the kids and everyone else in the relationship.

[mustang lover]

hey babe
and what do u do if the ass hole set u free and all the ****ing family agrees?
take it easy

[vettelover]

just leave him and marry me :D

[mustang lover]

hehehe..thank u but i think on time is more than enough
and whats up with the batelco sign?

[Honda Hunter]

hey babe
and what do u do if the ass hole set u free and all the ****ing family agrees?
take it easy
Can you explain? What do you mean by setting you free and the family agrees? I'm not Arab so the culture is foreign to me.

[mustang lover]

ure lucky not to be one...
i mean i asked for a divorce before but he refused..talked to my family and his but everyone says i should stay for the kids...
he can easily take my kids ..and i would rather die...

[Honda Hunter]

ure lucky not to be one...
i mean i asked for a divorce before but he refused..talked to my family and his but everyone says i should stay for the kids...
he can easily take my kids ..and i would rather die...
Ok, I understand now. Someone explained it to me once. I really dont know what your options are at this point. I'm sorry it has to be this way and I'm really sorry to hear that the system in this country seems to be against the women in such manners. Women desserve more rights but it's really not my place to say. Also next time you want to reply to me just click this --->http://www.gulfgt.com/forum/images/buttons/quote.gif Makes it alot easier :D

[ZOSicK]

try your best to stay for the sake of your children coz what your suffering now and giving up is nothing but a very small price comparing to the life that your children will be living and suffering if you both got divorced


good luck

[-=<FOXXX>=-]

what is going on here?

[ED]

I dont really think this is the right place to get advise on such matters to be honest.

butnever the less, what are details, what wrong with him, and whas wong with you as well.

if he is such an a'hole why did you marry him at the first place, and how old are both of you.

how many kids do you have and how old are they?

[Honda Hunter]

I dont understand how anyone gets married here. It seems as though the man has all the power in the relationship and can do what he pleases and the women is screwed. I see comments like thye should stick it out for the kids, that's crazy. Kids can sense when the parents are having strong issues and pretending to love eachother doesnt fool anyone and in the end I know for a fact everyone will suffer. Then I read why did you marry him in the first place. People change sometimes. Some people are one way dating then another married. Not all marriages are ment to be. Some people dont find out who theyre really with till it's to late. That doesnt mean they should have to pay for making the wrong choice forever. That's why we have divorce. Why is it even a option in this country if everyone seems to feel the same way about it?

[ED]

I dont understand how anyone gets married here. It seems as though the man has all the power in the relationship and can do what he pleases and the women is screwed. I see comments like thye should stick it out for the kids, that's crazy. Kids can sense when the parents are having strong issues and pretending to love eachother doesnt fool anyone and in the end I know for a fact everyone will suffer. Then I read why did you marry him in the first place. People change sometimes. Some people are one way dating then another married. Not all marriages are ment to be. Some people dont find out who theyre really with till it's to late. That doesnt mean they should have to pay for making the wrong choice forever. That's why we have divorce. Why is it even a option in this country if everyone seems to feel the same way about it?
marrige here is a nit compecated, but things are'nt the way you think they are, well, maybe for the un-educated and rather premitive families/societies it is exactly what you discribed, but things have changed alont the years.

and women rights is bahrain are in good shape, however, they need to be review in some area's and are being worked on and alot have been fixed or changed to a some wha better condetions.

I totaly understand your point about people changing and how it is a matter of choice, wether you stay or leave, and I strongly believe, that leaving in the right time is better for the kids, I mean, kids would grow much better (mentaly and moraly) with saperated parents rather than married parents who are not stable and have sever problems in the relationship as they are growing up. BUT, their are families with parents who decided to just stay together for the kids that have managed to live a nearly normal life (mostly from the educated slice) , and i know some that are pretty much normal and u woouldnt know unless you were told.

[Honda Hunter]

marrige here is a nit compecated, but things are'nt the way you think they are, well, maybe for the un-educated and rather premitive families/societies it is exactly what you discribed, but things have changed alont the years.

and women rights is bahrain are in good shape, however, they need to be review in some area's and are being worked on and alot have been fixed or changed to a some wha better condetions.

I totaly understand your point about people changing and how it is a matter of choice, wether you stay or leave, and I strongly believe, that leaving in the right time is better for the kids, I mean, kids would grow much better (mentaly and moraly) with saperated parents rather than married parents who are not stable and have sever problems in the relationship as they are growing up. BUT, their are families with parents who decided to just stay together for the kids that have managed to live a nearly normal life (mostly from the educated slice) , and i know some that are pretty much normal and u woouldnt know unless you were told.

their are families with parents who decided to just stay together for the kids that have managed to live a nearly normal life (mostly from the educated slice) , and i know some that are pretty much normal and u woouldnt know unless you were told.
The only issue I have with that is if the love isnt there anymore and you grow apart but stay together for the kids what happens to your love life? Do couples like that play the role in front of familly and friends but have others partners to love behind closed doors to fufill that empty part in thier lives?

[4ced]

im sorry to hear this, sounds serious... well, im not the expert but i would have to say staying together FOR the kids is not the best thing... theyll get emotionally scarred living between two parents that dont love each other, and its probably better for them apart... at least they can see each parent separately but happy... you guys can share time with them... definately sholdnt stay together and then use "the kids" as the reason...

things dont always end up the way you want them to be.. thats life, you deal with it, just try to get through it the right way... how old are the kids btw, and how long have you guys been married?

[outlaw rider]

just leave him and marry me :D




:stupid:

[Honda Hunter]

:stupid:
She's been there, done that and got the t-shirt. She needs something new like a saucy black american who owns a slow Camaro.

[SpiderSol]

Again!!!!!!!!!

[ED]

Exactly man.

[4ced]

sorry stang lover, this way probably the worst place to post up a serious issue ....... these guys cant take anything serioulsy

[vettelover]

:stupid:


:whip: eshtaby ent

[mustang lover]

sorry stang lover, this way probably the worst place to post up a serious issue ....... these guys cant take anything serioulsy






thanx everyone...really appreciate it
but do u think that staying in hell just for the kids will make things easier?
itll be like losing a piece of ure soul each day...
but life is always unfair...

[Blow-Off]

Mastang Lover i advise U to CaLL " Dr. fozeyah drai3 " in " AL-RAI" channeL i think in satrday at 11pm , its a very stronge show waLaah inshaLah she wiLL soLve ur ProbLem , and my advise that why u dont negotiate wth Him and show him that u are hurt and its enough for u and u cant take it any more, or Sue Him 'and ask for devorce in " the court Of Law " akeed thy wiLL be in ur side if ur right .thanx

[Honda Hunter]

Mastang Lover i advise U to CaLL " Dr. fozeyah drai3 " in " AL-RAI" channeL i think in satrday at 11pm , its a very stronge show waLaah inshaLah she wiLL soLve ur ProbLem , and my advise that why u dont negotiate wth Him and show him that u are hurt and its enough for u and u cant take it any more, or Sue Him 'and ask for devorce in " the court Of Law " akeed thy wiLL be in ur side if ur right .thanx
I dont understand how a strong show or a message board is going to help her. She needs to dig deep down within herself and do in her heart what she knows she must do whatever that is. Prayer and strength should get her through until she decides what's best for her and her children.

[Blow-Off]

I dont understand how a strong show or a message board is going to help her. She needs to dig deep down within herself and do in her heart what she knows she must do whatever that is. Prayer and strength should get her through until she decides what's best for her and her children.

I know but this is My opinion and the Dr in the show present a great soLution and advices beLeeve me and not only concentrateon this show it could be a back Up for her , and about the childrens she cant decide that thy wiLL be wth her the court should decide and one thing u dont know her husbend Problem maybe hes Right and she's wrong we dont Know .

[mustang lover]

I know but this is My opinion and the Dr in the show present a great soLution and advices beLeeve me and not only concentrateon this show it could be a back Up for her , and about the childrens she cant decide that thy wiLL be wth her the court should decide and one thing u dont know her husbend Problem maybe hes Right and she's wrong we dont Know .


i know this show but i really think it wont work for me cause i think itll take more than a few minutes to solve my problem..and going to court in a country like this wont do me any good...thell simply take my kids away from me and id rather live in hell than let it happen...
talking frankly is the best way to solve any problem and pretending that everything is ok is like being in denial...and this is what is my partner is doing

[Honda Hunter]

I know but this is My opinion and the Dr in the show present a great soLution and advices beLeeve me and not only concentrateon this show it could be a back Up for her , and about the childrens she cant decide that thy wiLL be wth her the court should decide and one thing u dont know her husbend Problem maybe hes Right and she's wrong we dont Know .
You made a very good point. There are three sides to every story. Her side, his side, and the truth and only they know what the truth is. At the moment we are all basing our opinions based on half the story, the half that is her side and we have absolutly no clue what's going on in that household. With that said, I could care less about her and her husband. I hope these kids come out of it ok. It's so hard growing up in the new world we live in today and it's even harder when you have a rough child hood and or you have to go through your parents problems before youre old enough to have your own.

[Honda Hunter]

i know this show but i really think it wont work for me cause i think itll take more than a few minutes to solve my problem..and going to court in a country like this wont do me any good...thell simply take my kids away from me and id rather live in hell than let it happen...
talking frankly is the best way to solve any problem and pretending that everything is ok is like being in denial...and this is what is my partner is doing
If the court system is the way youre describing then this country is 15 years behind the rest of the world.

[Blow-Off]

..and going to court in a country like this wont do me any good...thell simply take my kids away from me and id rather live in hell than let it happen...


Sorry if ur talking about ba7rain our courts is very good if ur case is right and ur hasbend is the bad side i dont think that the court wiLL judge on his side this wouLd be on the movies Not here i know that in the past the man side is stronger but also ba7rain have Laws now, so if u afraid that ur husband wiLL take ur children Go to court cuz its not a smaLL deal ur talking about ur children futuer.

[Blow-Off]

If the court system is the way youre describing then this country is 15 years behind the rest of the world.

Man its a matter of reputation the court has a problem wth the women in tha past and as u see alot of people think that its stiLL the same , but now s diffrent cuz there is a law that make the women have devorced from the man and that the judge wiLL decide and he wiLL not take this action unless he study the case and see whos the wrong and whose the right .

HH soory man if my engLish is bad. :king:

[Honda Hunter]

Man its a matter of reputation the court has a problem wth the women in tha past and as u see alot of people think that its stiLL the same , but now s diffrent cuz there is a law that make the women have devorced from the man and that the judge wiLL decide and he wiLL not take this action unless he study the case and see whos the wrong and whose the right .

HH soory man if my engLish is bad. :king:
Dont worry about the english dude. English is my first and only language and I still cant speak or write it correctly half the time. I guess I cant judge. In my country it's pretty much the opposite. Unless there is a very strong reason the mother shouldnt/cant take care of the children they usually ge them. It's opposite here though in both cases courts do look into both parents before decieding.

[ADM]

Does your husband have an embassey? If so, leave it up to me lol.
Seriously, such matters should never be discussed in public. IF someone finds out who you are, bet9eer laish fe'9ee7a. And we all know how fast the word spreads in Bahrain.