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adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 03:58 PM
You know when you meet a girl, and you begin to really like her, and the whole point of you meeting her, is to hook up with her, and then after all the nice things you say to her, all the phonecalls and sms msgs, and all the signs you throw at her that you're interested, all she can say to you is "but I thought we were just friends?" I hate it when that happens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:01 PM
dude... she is thinking right.. it's you who is expecting a fast love.
Just get to know her and then it will hit both of you :up2:

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:05 PM
dude... she is thinking right.. it's you who is expecting a fast love.
Just get to know her and then it will hit both of you :up2:

After 6 months? you call that fast? after her noticing what i was doin for her and her throwin mixed signs? how long are these things meant to take, eventhough she only classifies us as friends? they actually have periods for this ****? i've been dating before but, daym, what's happening to the world today!!!

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:06 PM
6 months ... you never said that
i guess she is slow in thinking

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:11 PM
6 months ... you never said that
i guess she is slow in thinking

Bwahahahahahahahahah nice one!!!

Leo
May 18th, 2004, 04:12 PM
I need 4 year's to know if I can be not just a friend …






and still am thinking .. :catsmile:

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:13 PM
i guess you have a cement block for a brain Leo..... come on 4 years

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:16 PM
I need 4 year's to know if I can be not just a friend …
and still am thinking .. :catsmile:

ok, that's like over the limit... so if you met a decent guy that treats you like gold and respects you, you keep him waiting for 4 goddamn years? what gauranmtees you that he will still be waiting? what kinda idiots do you date? :thinking2

Shakalakin
May 18th, 2004, 04:17 PM
DONT BE TOOOO NICE

When your busy dont leave everyone to talk to her tell her your busy...

dont be there for her all the time

do something very nice out of the blue

:blink:

we talked about this before lah :blink:

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:19 PM
DONT BE TOOOO NICE

When your busy dont leave everyone to talk to her tell her your busy...
dont be there for her all the time
do something very nice out of the blue
:blink:
we talked about this before lah :blink:

dude, that **** don't work..... :whip:

Leo
May 18th, 2004, 04:20 PM
ok, that's like over the limit... so if you met a decent guy that treats you like gold and respects you, you keep him waiting for 4 goddamn years? what gauranmtees you that he will still be waiting? what kinda idiots do you date? :thinking2


No one is perfect...

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:21 PM
yeah that's right

Shakalakin
May 18th, 2004, 04:23 PM
Ok you guys are the pros i got married khalas no need to play the feild :blink:

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:26 PM
miskeen.. married :pimp: 4 life

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:27 PM
No one is perfect...
of course no one is but still....

shkalakin: like you said, you ain't got no worries now...we single guys do!

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:29 PM
Single... not for long if your in love boy
:crazy:

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:36 PM
Single... not for long if your in love boy
:crazy:

in love ? not anymore, man.... not if this is the case with most of these arab girls... had too many "FRIENDS" experiences... you see them dating the whole planet, and when you come in2 the picture, suddenly, they're not looking for relationships...i don't get this anymore....

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:37 PM
:thinking:

Leo
May 18th, 2004, 04:41 PM
in love ? not anymore, man.... not if this is the case with most of these arab girls... had too many "FRIENDS" experiences... you see them dating the whole planet, and when you come in2 the picture, suddenly, they're not looking for relationships...i don't get this anymore....


http://www.planetsmilies.com/smilies/happy/1/happy11.gif 7ellwah... i like it man...

adrenaline
May 18th, 2004, 04:43 PM
http://www.planetsmilies.com/smilies/happy/1/happy11.gif 7ellwah... i like it man...

because it's true! Right? :tudevil:

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 04:46 PM
:pimp:

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 04:56 PM
my heart.... it's killing me

Leo
May 18th, 2004, 05:01 PM
go to BDF now....

Silver SS
May 18th, 2004, 05:21 PM
miskeen.... i have a heart in the freezer.. do you want it

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 06:11 PM
your making fun of me..... I almost got a stroke that night you freak...

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 06:11 PM
hey

A stroke heart.... maybe I'll get a 383 or somthing...

designo
May 18th, 2004, 06:14 PM
i'm married but available!

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 06:16 PM
i'm married but available!

do you want some brownies baby? :crazy:

designo
May 18th, 2004, 06:17 PM
anyone else????

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 06:20 PM
anyone else????



ya me me me :thanku:

ZOSicK
May 18th, 2004, 06:21 PM
ya that sucks big time .. but u should have been clear with her and tried to atleast etgees el nabth :confused:

it would have been more easier then :up2:

Black Z
May 18th, 2004, 06:24 PM
my nabth is slowing down :(

SS
May 18th, 2004, 06:42 PM
adrenaline, life is hard

4ced
May 18th, 2004, 08:16 PM
well, stop being there for her all the time is basically the number one piece of advice u need!

being there ALL the time before anything actually happens between u 2 makes u a GOOD FRIEND in her books so wait until u actually start a relationship with her THEN u can be there all the time, and then u can be her lover AND her friend

but progressing from friend to love is difficult... and she might find it awkward

so heres a good tip, pretend theres someone else and start giving that other person most of ur time, kinda neglecting her to tell u the truth, and when she realizes that she will get more attatched to u! hopefully, it works ! good luck :bigok:

Splash
May 18th, 2004, 08:37 PM
u just need to show her ur MOJO :crazy: then she will really now that it's not about friendship anymore :lildevil:


:thanku:

4ced
May 18th, 2004, 08:48 PM
yeah baby show her the MOJO YEAH BABY YEAH :smilelol:

SAMoloGY
May 18th, 2004, 09:16 PM
well, stop being there for her all the time is basically the number one piece of advice u need!

being there ALL the time before anything actually happens between u 2 makes u a GOOD FRIEND in her books so wait until u actually start a relationship with her THEN u can be there all the time, and then u can be her lover AND her friend

but progressing from friend to love is difficult... and she might find it awkward

so heres a good tip, pretend theres someone else and start giving that other person most of ur time, kinda neglecting her to tell u the truth, and when she realizes that she will get more attatched to u! hopefully, it works ! good luck :bigok:
been there.. done that

worked well!

ZOSicK
May 18th, 2004, 11:49 PM
u just need to show her ur MOJO :crazy: then she will really now that it's not about friendship anymore :lildevil:


:thanku:
:up2:

Fast Lane
May 18th, 2004, 11:58 PM
well, stop being there for her all the time is basically the number one piece of advice u need!

being there ALL the time before anything actually happens between u 2 makes u a GOOD FRIEND in her books so wait until u actually start a relationship with her THEN u can be there all the time, and then u can be her lover AND her friend

but progressing from friend to love is difficult... and she might find it awkward

so heres a good tip, pretend theres someone else and start giving that other person most of ur time, kinda neglecting her to tell u the truth, and when she realizes that she will get more attatched to u! hopefully, it works ! good luck :bigok:

this works really well! great advice 4ced. :tudevil:
i had a wow night today
my lips are numb. :lildevil:
In my case im the one who wants to stay friends with the girls, cuz you can do the same things when u are friends or lovers.. its no different. and much more better. :p
about u adreline, so youve seen her, been with her, and asyou said kissed her and all that, and she doesnt feel like she wants to get closer? maybe she got her eye on some other hot shot! :thinking2

designo
May 19th, 2004, 12:10 AM
i prefer casual sex actually! that worked for me!

NOS4EVER
May 19th, 2004, 03:59 AM
miskeen.... i have a heart in the freezer.. do you want it


make fun of my frind and you have to face me
http://instagiber.net/smiliesdotcom/games/diablo/diablo_ani_fire.gif

ENIGMA.com
May 19th, 2004, 06:23 AM
4ced has a point there. keep your cool, pretend you have a girlfriend, and everything should go well. That's how I do it, but be careful where you may end up coz you might find out that a girl you consider as a friend will soon get jealous and try to escalate the relationship (that's what's happening to me)

designo
May 19th, 2004, 08:22 AM
DON JUAN has spoken!

4ced
May 19th, 2004, 08:45 AM
u mean me? yes i know thank u thank u :thanku:

adrenaline
May 19th, 2004, 09:04 AM
this works really well! great advice 4ced. :tudevil:
i had a wow night today
my lips are numb. :lildevil:
In my case im the one who wants to stay friends with the girls, cuz you can do the same things when u are friends or lovers.. its no different. and much more better. :p
about u adreline, so youve seen her, been with her, and asyou said kissed her and all that, and she doesnt feel like she wants to get closer? maybe she got her eye on some other hot shot! :thinking2

:thinking: have you been seeing her behind my back??? :hitwit:

ENIGMA.com
May 19th, 2004, 12:58 PM
DON JUAN has spoken!

:thanku:

Fast Lane
May 19th, 2004, 08:42 PM
:thinking: have you been seeing her behind my back??? :hitwit:

maybe.. :p ;)

susu
May 19th, 2004, 09:18 PM
well, stop being there for her all the time is basically the number one piece of advice u need!

being there ALL the time before anything actually happens between u 2 makes u a GOOD FRIEND in her books so wait until u actually start a relationship with her THEN u can be there all the time, and then u can be her lover AND her friend

but progressing from friend to love is difficult... and she might find it awkward

so heres a good tip, pretend theres someone else and start giving that other person most of ur time, kinda neglecting her to tell u the truth, and when she realizes that she will get more attatched to u! hopefully, it works ! good luck :bigok:
i have 4ced to say that was the worst advise so far in this thread .........good try though

Hiya guys,...........

Q)ok now to gain a gf and not just a friend ?
1. Make sure she knows she is the top priority, centre of ure universe n that u genuinely love her or wana be with her because of her n not coz of her looks,figure etc

2.Dont ever say she is dumb or thickhead (doesn't work)

3. Adore her simple........make sure she knows if its not her there will be noone else.

as a girl thats the best advise i can give to u single guys

susu
May 19th, 2004, 09:25 PM
:thinking: have you been seeing her behind my back??? :hitwit:
hey ........so u've found a new spot haaaa........

susu
May 19th, 2004, 09:28 PM
ok adrenaline why dont u let a girl like me help u out on this....

so u know her for 6 months n exchanged nos,sms, phone calls.......

if u give more details i could help u out........

n u say that u dont even love her anymore? so why care?
oh for the next time right>...

4ced
May 19th, 2004, 10:55 PM
susu, this is tried and tested info :up2: i can say it works for maybe 80% of the girls... u just might be the 20% eli lazm ydal3onhum all the time :D

designo
May 20th, 2004, 01:51 AM
ok adrenaline why dont u let a girl like me help u out on this....

so u know her for 6 months n exchanged nos,sms, phone calls.......

if u give more details i could help u out........

n u say that u dont even love her anymore? so why care?
oh for the next time right>...
go out with him, that will help! Otherwise.. stay away from him! He's a complicated freak!

ENIGMA.com
May 20th, 2004, 03:47 AM
designo, you're an even more complicated freak man

4ced
May 20th, 2004, 07:55 AM
and enigma! u top them all!

ENIGMA.com
May 20th, 2004, 12:06 PM
:thanku:

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:03 PM
susu, this is tried and tested info :up2: i can say it works for maybe 80% of the girls... u just might be the 20% eli lazm ydal3onhum all the time :D
80% re u sure ..........i dont think so ........

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:05 PM
go out with him, that will help! Otherwise.. stay away from him! He's a complicated freak!
well he wudn't be the 1st one ?

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 12:16 PM
half the ppl here are complicated!

susu this is how girls are, im sorry to say,

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 12:18 PM
its always backwards with girls...

this girl i once knew... she kept telling my friend she wanted to sleep with him... then when he said ok ill do it she though, umm, no i dont want

once she was with me, she kept telling me the same thing i told her no, lets wait, not now, not until the right time, and she was all over me

i dont get u girls wala, half of u are nuts

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:20 PM
half the ppl here are complicated!

susu this is how girls are, im sorry to say,
hehe i agree we're all complicated

correction... ..this is how some girls are

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:23 PM
its always backwards with girls...

this girl i once knew... she kept telling my friend she wanted to sleep with him... then when he said ok ill do it she though, umm, no i dont want

once she was with me, she kept telling me the same thing i told her no, lets wait, not now, not until the right time, and she was all over me

i dont get u girls wala, half of u are nuts
why does everything have to be about sex?isnt this threa abt real relationships then sexual flings

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 12:24 PM
yeah i know its some

80%

i mentioned that already :D

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:27 PM
yeah i know its some

80%

i mentioned that already :D
sorry ..........my bad

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 12:33 PM
its not all about sex, im just giving u an example

you want aanother example? this girl i knew... when i was asking her out all the time she didnt want anything... then when i ignored her she came back to me bro7ha...

and she kept calling and i ignored her calls and completely and utterly treated her like crap not picking up always giving the phone to my friends etc etc and that just made her want me more

:nono2:

thank god im out of that stage, 5ala9 im gettin engaged on wed wish me luck :D

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:39 PM
its not all about sex, im just giving u an example

you want aanother example? this girl i knew... when i was asking her out all the time she didnt want anything... then when i ignored her she came back to me bro7ha...

and she kept calling and i ignored her calls and completely and utterly treated her like crap not picking up always giving the phone to my friends etc etc and that just made her want me more

:nono2:

thank god im out of that stage, 5ala9 im gettin engaged on wed wish me luck :D
congrats on ure engagement n dont use those ignoring tricks on ure fiancee
hehe j/k

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 12:43 PM
well, susu, this is how the story goes... this thread was opened requiring opinions, not my personal experiences that i've been through lately...but alot in the past... some girls want to be the centre of the universe? Another way of saying...man needs to become slave for woman... :whip:
and sometimes you like someone so much that you want to start taking care of her and being all that you can be, but she won't give you the "go ahead" signal and will play around with a guy's emotions thinking that he'll just sit there and play along... well, that ain't happening... then they complain about how they shouldn't be more than friends and it won't work out, why? because he won't bow down to her? :thinking2
I believe that if a girl finds a decent guy that gives her attention at least, and even tries to understand her and try to make her happy, she should try to give it a shot as you already know, there are alot of people who just want to have fun....aka sex....what do you think? :thanku:

susu
May 22nd, 2004, 12:55 PM
well, susu, this is how the story goes... this thread was opened requiring opinions, not my personal experiences that i've been through lately...but alot in the past... some girls want to be the centre of the universe? Another way of saying...man needs to become slave for woman... :whip:
and sometimes you like someone so much that you want to start taking care of her and being all that you can be, but she won't give you the "go ahead" signal and will play around with a guy's emotions thinking that he'll just sit there and play along... well, that ain't happening... then they complain about how they shouldn't be more than friends and it won't work out, why? because he won't bow down to her? :thinking2
I believe that if a girl finds a decent guy that gives her attention at least, and even tries to understand her and try to make her happy, she should try to give it a shot as you already know, there are alot of people who just want to have fun....aka sex....what do you think? :thanku:
why is it bad if a girl wants to be the centre of ure universe if u are hers? n obviously if she just wants to stay friends that means that she really likes u n wants to stay in touch.why does it have to be gf/ bf or nothing else?be a friend n express ure emotions of a lover while being her friend rather than asking her to choose n putting her under pressure.some girls have had bad experiences n just try to be xtra careful.a lotta guys have this act of being genuine n it all changes, so if u are prove it without asking her to commit first.
n if u really cared u wudnt care if u were a slave to her as long as u were there for her n im sure she wud see that

CapRicon
May 22nd, 2004, 01:01 PM
there are some jokes 4 u - Adrenaline

Girl friend: ... and are u sure u love me and no one else ?
Boy friend: dead sure! i checked the whole list again yesterday. :lildevil:

Man: U remind me of the sea.
Woman: Bcoz i'm wild, romantic and exciting?
Man: No, bcoz u make me sick ....

:french:

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 01:10 PM
why is it bad if a girl wants to be the centre of ure universe if u are hers? n obviously if she just wants to stay friends that means that she really likes u n wants to stay in touch.why does it have to be gf/ bf or nothing else?be a friend n express ure emotions of a lover while being her friend rather than asking her to choose n putting her under pressure.some girls have had bad experiences n just try to be xtra careful.a lotta guys have this act of being genuine n it all changes, so if u are prove it without asking her to commit first.
n if u really cared u wudnt care if u were a slave to her as long as u were there for her n im sure she wud see that
what? and what is the guy supposed to be? centre of the sewage system? thats she can walk on whenever she wants to? reply on her calls and messages whenever she feels like it? and if she really likes me and knows that it'll work out as the guy likes her too, then what's the problem? friends have limitations, gf/bf is deeper and more committed... to belong... and if all her past experiences are gonna stay in her mind til the dawn of time, then she'll never fall in love again or be with someone because that's a bullshit excuse she uses as an escape instead of reasoning and knowing that she's in better hands now... :thanku:
excuse me? a slave? get a maid!!!!! :whip:

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 01:11 PM
there are some jokes 4 u - Adrenaline

Girl friend: ... and are u sure u love me and no one else ?
Boy friend: dead sure! i checked the whole list again yesterday. :lildevil:

Man: U remind me of the sea.
Woman: Bcoz i'm wild, romantic and exciting?
Man: No, bcoz u make me sick ....

:french:

hahahahahahahaha nice one.... :french:

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 01:15 PM
adrenaline, seriously, gimme a call explain to me the whole situation ill give u the right tips ive seen this type of girl far too many times... but there is a way around it... she just needs to adjust her attitude a bit and then 5ala9...

susu, if its just a girlfriend boyfriend thing u dont know how serious its gonna get in the future, so then its always your needs before the other person... but when ur in a serious relationship, when ur engaged or married or whatever, u do everything for the other person because you have already passed all that stuff about being sure how much you are both willing to give up for each other... the whole thing with trying these so called "tricks" and stuff is to find out how serious u are about each other, and to straighten out all ur problems and stuff... when u figure out that u are right for each other then all these kids games will be over :up2:

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 01:19 PM
adrenaline, if shes too uptight to see what ur doing for her then u need to seriously change ur ways towards her till she realizes what shes losing... then she will change by herself... cuz shes taking it for granted right now, thinkin that she doesnt need to put in any effort to get whatever she wants out of u... when she realizes ena ehya kanat emga9ra, she will change

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 01:23 PM
adrenaline, if shes too uptight to see what ur doing for her then u need to seriously change ur ways towards her till she realizes what shes losing... then she will change by herself... cuz shes taking it for granted right now, thinkin that she doesnt need to put in any effort to get whatever she wants out of u... when she realizes ena ehya kanat emga9ra, she will change

dude...you even living in this country???

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 01:30 PM
yeah dude u saw me a few days ago remember :thinking:

serioulsy, u might think shes bahraini and will not have a tendancy to change and stuff but just try this approach... after all, the one ur using right now isnt working, so what do u have to lose?

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 01:34 PM
well he wudn't be the 1st one ?
how many guys have you gone out with ???

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 01:43 PM
this girl i once knew... she kept telling my friend she wanted to sleep with him... then when he said ok ill do it she though, umm, no i dont want

once she was with me, she kept telling me the same thing i told her no, lets wait, not now, not until the right time, and she was all over me


you want aanother example? this girl i knew... when i was asking her out all the time she didnt want anything... then when i ignored her she came back to me bro7ha...

and she kept calling and i ignored her calls and completely and utterly treated her like crap not picking up always giving the phone to my friends etc etc and that just made her want me more


adrenaline, seriously, gimme a call explain to me the whole situation ill give u the right tips ive seen this type of girl far too many times... but there is a way around it... she just needs to adjust her attitude a bit and then 5ala9...

CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS GUY????? WHAT A POSER!!

Fast Lane
May 22nd, 2004, 01:54 PM
what? and what is the guy supposed to be? centre of the sewage system? thats she can walk on whenever she wants to? reply on her calls and messages whenever she feels like it? and if she really likes me and knows that it'll work out as the guy likes her too, then what's the problem? friends have limitations, gf/bf is deeper and more committed... to belong... and if all her past experiences are gonna stay in her mind til the dawn of time, then she'll never fall in love again or be with someone because that's a bullshit excuse she uses as an escape instead of reasoning and knowing that she's in better hands now... :thanku:
excuse me? a slave? get a maid!!!!! :whip:

adrenaline. make her become your slave. when your her slave then thats when its going wrong. remmeber that! :pimp:

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 02:12 PM
lets dig up some other posts shall we?


ive quit the game now so madri if the girls attitudes towards this have changed, but i dont really think so, give em a nice smile, hello how r u? and then explain why ur there, i just saw u and felt i wanted to talk with u, may i? somethin like that...



listen guys and girls, if u want to know if someone is single or not, gimme their name and any details... ill follow it up

i charge 20bd per hour (im serious about this, i can really get u info and stuff)


i was once a young and innocent boy, fell in love, got screwed over, and suddenly i decided, u know what? screw that im screwing EVERYONE over and i played so many girls and basically that totally changed me into the 4ced Induction character you all know and love (love? totally despise i mean)

ive calmed down now though, im a better person, it took 7 years but hey, u get through it

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 02:14 PM
ok, whats your point?

im a poser y3ni? LIKE U DIDNT FIGURE THAT OUT ALREADY?! yes designo, i know more girls than u, i slept with more girls than u, i can play girls better than u... whats the problem...

if u have it, flaunt it! :up2:

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 02:16 PM
i average about 20 girlfriends a year, and the numebr of girls that i just sleep with or have one night stands with are uncountable

if u need some of my eternal player wisdom, feel free to ask! i offered it before but u declined! (remember that)

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 02:17 PM
ok, whats your point?

im a poser y3ni? LIKE U DIDNT FIGURE THAT OUT ALREADY?! yes designo, i know more girls than u, i slept with more girls than u, i can play girls better than u... whats the problem...

if u have it, flaunt it! :up2:

lets see what your future wife thinks of that! :whip:

4ced
May 22nd, 2004, 02:26 PM
at least i wont be whipped... like some people i know :up2:

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 02:56 PM
at least i wont be whipped... like some people i know :up2:
thats what i said too....

hahahahahah

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 03:28 PM
ok, whats your point?
im a poser y3ni? LIKE U DIDNT FIGURE THAT OUT ALREADY?! yes designo, i know more girls than u, i slept with more girls than u, i can play girls better than u... whats the problem...
if u have it, flaunt it! :up2:

Bwahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah aha somebody stop don juan here or all the girls will leave humanity for him... hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha oh my god! :french: :french: :french: :french:

adrenaline
May 22nd, 2004, 03:33 PM
susu, you don't know jack about relationships...that's why you've been through god knows how many....wtf? if u can't keep a decent guy and rather keep going through them until you find yourself a slave, then keep looking, because you'll end up being someone's slave yourself... :whip: what kind of theory is that for a woman...to find a slave? no wonder the girls in this country have gone down the drain....it's because of people like you who look for the wrong type of guy and hope that he'll be everything they want...open your eyes, because if you find a decent one, keep him, because he ain't coming back...and when you find yourself 50 or 60 years old and all you can think of is why you never got married, remember...
My advice to you is, get your priorities straight...your head cleaned up.... and remember "what goes around, comes around"

CapRicon
May 22nd, 2004, 04:29 PM
cheers .....

Girl: If we become engaged will u give me a ring ?
Boy: Sure, what's ur phone number ?

:cheers:

CapRicon
May 22nd, 2004, 04:33 PM
Wife: U tell a man something, it goes in one ear and comes out of the other. :french:

Husband: U tell a woman something, it goes in both ears and comes out of the mouth. :crazy:

:welcome2:

Montoya
May 22nd, 2004, 05:14 PM
Adrenaline ma buddy, back to the topic of the thread....
well here is my advice.
when you get to meet a girl u r interested in and wanna ask her out dont be her buddy for too long. Just long enough to know that she accepts you in her life as buddy or whatever. As soon as you know she feels comfortable to talk with you or be around you that's when you make your move and tell her you are interested in her and wanna ask her out. It's at that moment that she still hasn't marked you as a friend and is still happy about getting to know you.
Girls like it when a guy is confident and approaches them directly rather than pretend to be a friend mean while all along he really wants to date her.
If you wait to become a friend first then she'll classify you as a friend and the whole idea of you two getting to date is flushed down the toilet.

6 months is way too long for such a thing to work. Cut the time span down to weeks at the most .

Confidense is very important and making her laugh is an easy way to get to her heart. That way they enjoy being around you and wouldn't mind spending more time with you because your company makes them happy. just dont over do it with the humor and keep your humor in good taste .

i hope what i wrote makes sence and in a way helps ya out.... :pimp:

designo
May 22nd, 2004, 05:18 PM
so i guess the saying goes..

SHOW HER YOUR MOJO, OR BE A BOZO

4ced
May 23rd, 2004, 04:03 PM
so i guess that makes u the bozo in your relationship huh

susu
May 24th, 2004, 12:33 PM
what? and what is the guy supposed to be? centre of the sewage system? thats she can walk on whenever she wants to? reply on her calls and messages whenever she feels like it? and if she really likes me and knows that it'll work out as the guy likes her too, then what's the problem? friends have limitations, gf/bf is deeper and more committed... to belong... and if all her past experiences are gonna stay in her mind til the dawn of time, then she'll never fall in love again or be with someone because that's a bullshit excuse she uses as an escape instead of reasoning and knowing that she's in better hands now... :thanku:
excuse me? a slave? get a maid!!!!! :whip:
ure problem is ure very stubborn n want everything ure way or no way maybe thats why things dont seem to be working out.Dont try n be the dominating figure be more supportive.

susu
May 24th, 2004, 12:40 PM
how many guys have you gone out with ???
i dont have to i see it all around me

susu
May 24th, 2004, 12:46 PM
susu, you don't know jack about relationships...that's why you've been through god knows how many....wtf? if u can't keep a decent guy and rather keep going through them until you find yourself a slave, then keep looking, because you'll end up being someone's slave yourself... :whip: what kind of theory is that for a woman...to find a slave? no wonder the girls in this country have gone down the drain....it's because of people like you who look for the wrong type of guy and hope that he'll be everything they want...open your eyes, because if you find a decent one, keep him, because he ain't coming back...and when you find yourself 50 or 60 years old and all you can think of is why you never got married, remember...
My advice to you is, get your priorities straight...your head cleaned up.... and remember "what goes around, comes around"
who the hell re u to judge me or my relationships.............atleast im not the one who excepts miracles........
i have one thing to say to u PRACTISE WAT U PREACH

4ced
May 24th, 2004, 01:01 PM
u can be dominating but all throughout that doesnt mean u have to be a *****...

she does what u ask her to... but if ur in the right kind of relationship, u will do anything she wants before she even asks for it :up:

CapRicon
May 24th, 2004, 01:03 PM
Ooops!

:pointlaf: Adrenaline .....

:lildevil: :lildevil:

adrenaline
May 24th, 2004, 01:21 PM
who the hell re u to judge me or my relationships.............atleast im not the one who excepts miracles........
i have one thing to say to u PRACTISE WAT U PREACH

who the hell am i? i bet you know very well who i am and what experience i had from a certain individual who can't control lying and talkin a load a shite!!!
and then who are you to consider yourself a higher race than anyone else here? you think you're better than us? you want men to be your slave? and get a goddamn clue.... women don't know a good thing when they see it, they'd rather be with the a$$hole, than with a decent guy who'd take care of them....go figure...go find yourself a slave...maybe he'll show you what SLAVE really means... :whip:
and i opened this thread for people who actually know about relationships, not someone who considers it to be a JOKE!!!

ENIGMA.com
May 24th, 2004, 01:26 PM
****, all this in one weekend???

adrenaline
May 24th, 2004, 01:34 PM
****, all this in one weekend???
can you believe it? :soccer:

ENIGMA.com
May 24th, 2004, 01:35 PM
NAAH I CAN'T

that's the problem

adrenaline
May 24th, 2004, 01:36 PM
NAAH I CAN'T

that's the problem


as in the words of the great ones at gulfgt...mwahahahahahahaha :tudevil:

ENIGMA.com
May 24th, 2004, 01:38 PM
do we have such a drunk **** who laughs like dat??

adrenaline
May 24th, 2004, 01:47 PM
do we have such a drunk **** who laughs like dat??


i can't pinpoint who it was right now.... :thinking2

ENIGMA.com
May 24th, 2004, 01:48 PM
why is that???

adrenaline
May 24th, 2004, 01:50 PM
why is that???

almost everyone here drinks...so dunno... :thinking2

susu
May 24th, 2004, 08:04 PM
u can be dominating but all throughout that doesnt mean u have to be a *****...

she does what u ask her to... but if ur in the right kind of relationship, u will do anything she wants before she even asks for it :up:
my point exactly .......

susu
May 24th, 2004, 08:12 PM
who the hell am i? i bet you know very well who i am and what experience i had from a certain individual who can't control lying and talkin a load a shite!!!
and then who are you to consider yourself a higher race than anyone else here? you think you're better than us? you want men to be your slave? and get a goddamn clue.... women don't know a good thing when they see it, they'd rather be with the a$$hole, than with a decent guy who'd take care of them....go figure...go find yourself a slave...maybe he'll show you what SLAVE really means... :whip:
and i opened this thread for people who actually know about relationships, not someone who considers it to be a JOKE!!!
i never said i want men to be the slave.......i said if a decent guy really wants to be with a girl he shud show it n prove it.........this place is full of assholes n every one talks a whole lotta **** so how the hell do u differentiate b/w an ******* n a good guy?
the decent guy just doesnt give crappy deadlines and difficult choices rather shows it......
if u think ure too good to just have a girl fall for u head over heels just cuz u say so...........think again buddy..........

n like 4ced said if u really care abt someone its not abt being a slave or asking for stuff they wud do the things for u regardless

if anyone here thinks relationship as a joke it has to be u cuz u dont seem to know much.

its not that i consider myself higher or superior u just re thickheaded to think that way........

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 08:16 AM
i'm not even gonna bother... this is my thread and i don't want your advice...
so back the f*** up... you know what you are... so let's not get things started here... I already left b/c because of you... you want me to leave here as well? i think you know very well about relationships, i don't run away the first chance i get when things get tough and have another one... so please... don't advise me on relationships... thank u...

4ced
May 25th, 2004, 08:40 AM
a39abkum shabab this is about sharing opinions and stuff not about fighting

i think the girl im gonna be with should do ANYTHING i ask her no matter what... and i would do the same for her, thats the kind of relationship im in

but this isnt about actually being in a relationship, this thread is about how to not go the wrong way

susu, i think if the guy starts by giving the girl everything she wants without being more than friends, she will take him as just that, a good friend, and will be taking him for granted basically... if he backs up a bit, she will feel that she wants him back, and maybe in a different way... thats my point

i dont think a guy should do everything for a girl he knows as just a friend if he wanted to go a bit further, because things get stuck that way... sure, u act nice, u do things every now and then, but u keep her wanting more... this way, things will evolve hopefully :up:

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 08:40 AM
what the hell is wrong with you people?? I don't want to repeat myself twice.

now please no flaming in this forum or else 4ced will intervene (and you definitely won't like it if he does intervene)

4ced
May 25th, 2004, 08:41 AM
and susu, i know about adrenaline... if he wanted to treat a girl right he WILL treat her better than most guys u know... he knows how to... but then, it depends on what the girl gives back too right?

anyway stop fighting guys i already have a headache...

4ced
May 25th, 2004, 08:42 AM
oops... i guess i already intervened (in a nice way though)

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 08:47 AM
...that's what i meant....

ZOSicK
May 25th, 2004, 09:37 AM
vat iz goin on in here :thinking:

CapRicon
May 25th, 2004, 10:06 AM
Adrenaline :vader: Susu

The One
May 25th, 2004, 10:09 AM
you people need to get a life.......................

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 10:38 AM
man, i already regret opening these threads... i forgot that most of the people here are too uptight and ppl just take shite too seriously... so somebody close this thread and do us all a favour be4 it gets ugly...

4ced
May 25th, 2004, 12:18 PM
its already ugly :devil:

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 12:20 PM
are all the moderators asleep? CLOSE THIS THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 12:42 PM
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I guess it's only me and you buddy, wanna shot??

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 12:47 PM
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I guess it's only me and you buddy, wanna shot??

why not...

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 12:50 PM
here ya go

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adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 12:52 PM
now look what you made me do... :alcoholic

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 12:54 PM
get used to it over here

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 01:17 PM
how old are you again? dude, you need to chill with that stuff then!

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 01:18 PM
20 years and growin (ok make that 21 over here)

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 01:32 PM
20 years and growin (ok make that 21 over here)

just chill on the drink....

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 01:37 PM
you got it

who the hell took my booze??

ED
May 25th, 2004, 01:46 PM
you got it

who the hell took my booze??

NOT ME...

GO AWAY....

ENIGMA.com
May 25th, 2004, 01:56 PM
this is my party

no one screws it up 4 me

susu
May 25th, 2004, 09:13 PM
and susu, i know about adrenaline... if he wanted to treat a girl right he WILL treat her better than most guys u know... he knows how to... but then, it depends on what the girl gives back too right?

anyway stop fighting guys i already have a headache...
dont worry im not even gonna bother replying to him

adrenaline
May 25th, 2004, 11:12 PM
dont worry im not even gonna bother replying to him

that makes things sooooooooooooooo much easier.... thanks for understanding...